This course did a good job of helping understand the other persons perspective. We so often dont think about what it feels like to be “put up with”, we tend to think more about what it feels like to be putting up with the other person. puts our differences aside an pit a very healthy perspective on the coparenting relationship. Everyone’s relationships are different and circumstances are different in every divorce. Although I didn’t agree with everything that was said during the course, there were definitely some interesting points. This course has opened my eyes to some things that I otherwise wouldn’t have thought about or considered. The biggest things that stood out to me would be “acceptance”, “disconnecting from being married”, and “put the children first”. Acceptance that he is who he is, whether I agree with it or not. Disconnect from being married in order to build a new co-parenting relationship. Put the children first because they had nothing to do with the end to our married relationship. I feel this course has given me some tools that I will be able to utilize when it comes to conversing with my ex, even when he is not receptive. It was very enlightening of how you need to look at yourself What an excellent course. I’m looking forward to the next chapter in my relationship with my former spouse. La responsabilidad, el perdón, la aceptación, la integridad, y el reconocimiento son vitales para la relación con la ex pareja. I learned that forgiveness is essential to coparenting, and healthy relationship for the better of the child. How to think about what might the other person feel about what choices are made. Lack of communication is the ending to anything! I feel like this was very helpful to reiterate what I already knew about taking the responsibility for my role in the breakdown of my marriage and not putting my children in the middle of the issues with their father. Aprender a perdonar es una de las claves para poder llevar bien un divorcio. This class was extremely informative and helpful. I know that it will be beneficial for my children and myself. Ah mi en lo personal me ayudó bastante este curso aprendí sobre el perdón y como llevar una crianza respetuosa con el papá de mi hija. These videos were useful opportunities to reflect upon the choices I made and incompatibilities I ignored about my spouse and myself going into the marriage. Going thru a divorce is so daunting, but I feel more able to take responsibility for the consequences of the divorce by owning up to all the ways that I created this situation. It may not be 100% “my fault,” but it is 100% my responsibility to deal with. Although there is plenty of hurt between me and my soon-to-be-ex, I still honor and respect her as the mother of my child, and an excellent mother at that. If I wish for my child to have a great ongoing relationship with her, I must think well of her, encourage my child to show her love, and always remind him that we are still a family – just operating in a new structure. in knowing that it takes you to forgive yourself before you can proceed forward with happiness is a key resource to make a separation go smoothly or more smoothly as it would wihtout knowing such resources knowing that forgiveness in yourself improves the outcome to the seperation of two people I never really dealt with divorce in my life. My parents are going on 60 years strong. This caught me by Surprise. I have learned where to hold myself responsible for my actions. i have a good outlook on how to communicate with my ex wife in the future. I have plans i will share with her on how to work with her and my son. I am looking forward to making things better with her for the sake of our son. I have learned that I need to let the past relationship go and learn to move on to raising our child with everything that is in their best interest. How to develop creative and effective ways to resolve difficult issues and learn to create agreements for interacting together. The forgiveness and responsibility parts of this is huge because it gives you the knowledge of the importance and impact it has on your life to do so. This was a very good course and I love all the tools I got out of it by completing it. Thank you very much! One of the videos made me realize who’s fault it actually was.Understanding Perspectives
Cleaning up the mess that we made
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Generosity with your ex and responsibility for your actions
Aspectos claves para tener presentes
Forgiveness is key
Interesting way of thinking of things
Communication Is Key
Good content
Aprendí
Very informative
Aprender a perdonar
Owning up to my part
forgivness
forgivness
New to Divorce
Learning points
Forgiveness and Responsibility
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