Course Reviews

I really like the idea of using calendars as a way for everyone to visualize what will be taking place so that there is no confusion or misunderstanding.

I really found the withholding and why I was doing it and how i justified it by changing the narrative on her was very helpful. I liked all of the examples and well. The comparing to a teenager making their parents the enemy was helpful

I have alwasy been interested in personal development and I feel that I have always done my best taking responsibility of my own actions and what I can do, being solutions oriented. I do think that this should be something pre-divorced couples could learn form. Watching this makes me wonder if filing for divorce is right. We have our first hearing in a few days. i never wanted to give up but I literally dont know what to do about my spouse is completelly disengaged from whats happened, whats happeneing and whats next. So I made my choice. What I am taking from this is empowerment to let go of and let our old relationship die, and learn how to step into what is next for our new relationship. It wont be easy but considering the reality that there is now a new chapter that needs to be lived in, prepares me and gives me something to focus on to learn and develop, taking the lead while I heal personally and to hopefully grow strong as “friends” for our littles sake. She just turned 4. Pray for us

This class did give some good ideas and plans to help coparenting happen in the best interest of the children involved.

If you really pay attention, the class makes you really think about the affects on the kids. Everyone can really take a lot from this class.

Much of this reminded me of other forgiveness based programs that hold a lot of merit. This is great for anyone with an open mind.

This really put into perspective for me, the impact that my actions and response towards my former spouse will have on our child. Trying to make him out to be the only one wrong, does absolutely no good for our child, myself or my former spouse.

there is a reason that this is required in many states. it just makes sense to give people an idea of why this happened and the best way to move forward. it was so informative, good to reflect on yourself and find that you had a part in causing the divorce and you are responsible for things going forward. most importantly to put children first.

Great workshop! Put things in perspective.

I learned how important it is to make sure that you don’t make them feel like it is their fault that you and the other parent are not together, and to encourage and enlighten the child about how they should be happy to get to do things with the other parent and encourage them to have fun. I now know that is would be best if i can learn to like and get along with my childs mother even though we are not together.

All the chapters were very insightful, I appreciated the testimonies from the others in the seminar. The chapter that caught my attention was the ‘turning point’, owning up to the fact that we all knew from the beginning what we were getting ourselves into… I feel this. Moving forward hindsight is 20/20

The over all reflection while following this class has created confidence for me while bridging the gap into co-parenting.

This course was very informative and allowed me to see through different perspectives.

Stable and fulfilling. Peace of mind. More able to assist child. Medical, education and discipline decisions. Less impact/effect on her for a successful future. Could be serious consequences if not properly addressed and communicated. Responsibility or stress that they may feel. Torn between two worlds. Loving both parents meaning it is not helpful to take all of the time away. What is now? I know I have at least something to do with everything and am taking responsibility. Restated that everything going forward is for Hailee. There is a major differencebetween what happened and interpretation.

Where did it go wrong? Not knowing the other parent, baby not made from love but love for the baby is forever. Poor communication. There is no guilt but responsibility for what has been said and done. It was toxic from the beginning. Never on the same page with the relationship with each other. Platonic. 0% attachment and commitment to each other. Freedom not necessarily with apology. Not intentionally malicious.circumstances did not cause solutions. Avoid reasons for not working and then avoid justification. I am not investing in making things wrong and not withholding information especially important info regarding the child. The parents are not connected but children are connected by everything and all surroundings. Main goal is to not damage any and all wellbeing. Always have integrity going forward. When it comes to Guilt or Blame. Context is a powerful place to stand. Choose a point of view that is empowering.. I was truly who I am when the mother met me. Children will be better off if and when I;take responsibility which is now. Generosity is powerful. They get to have environment where parents get along. Disconnect if needed. Connect following these decisions to set agreements with the coparent. A great example is the set schedule already in place. Opinions are opinions and not truth. Half Dad and half Mom. Mutual decisions in both household for consistency creates united front and empowering for maneuvering . Don’t disempower in front of kids. Ask it to stop if it occurs.

The effects of withholding and how I can create a healthy dynamic going forward

Great course with great resource

Lots of information and key principles to implement into my own situation with co-parenting.

de primero no creí necesario tomar estas clases pensaba que era perdida de tiempo conforme fui avanzando ahora creo que fue lo mejor , con estas clases entendí que es una necesidad el llevarte bien con tu ex pareja y crear un plan de acuerdos en conjunto por el bienestar de los niños .

I actually learned how from a very young age most people learn that responsibility means someone is getting blamed. This is not the case for the most part, Responsibility is just you admitting that things may have not happened the way you think they did.

This course is a great tool to reference during times of conflict