I managed my credibility poorly by “withholding” about 60% of my feelings towards whatever circumstance was happening. What is worse is I withheld about 85% of my feelings about myself from the start of our relationship. I always asked “do you even know me, who I am”? When I saw the segment on witholding my mind flooded with snapshots of poor judgment, communication, and vulnerability. I never would have learned this about myself and therefore will have this burned into my soul. My review is that I needed this and I wish I would have watched videos like this with Chelsea instead of therapy. These trainings have helped me a lot when it comes to learning how to coparent since it’s my first time doing this. This course helped me to open my eyes and take a look at my own actions and words, and then how they will affect the outcome of my divorce and in turn, the effect that it has on our children. Overall this was an eye opener. I’ve held onto so much anger and resentment that I wasn’t able to see how much I played into the divorce. This was a great tool to help me to start a better relationship with myself and ex spouse and our children. this is the most life altering for the children and they are my purpose in life so I will stand by Johnna and make decisions that have my kids first. We are basically starting over a new relationship as coparents and need to not push buttons or be negative as it will be more impactful with kids in two different households This was some pretty solid content, it did make me think about my divorce in a different light. I thought this course taught me to be less angry and to see from the spouses point of view. It taught me to accept it was both our responsibility to accept blame and the actual reasons our marriage failed. I learned to take responsibility for my part in the failed marriage. That it only hurts the kids if we cant figure out how to get along. I have to say, listening to everything really opened my eyes to a lot. I had to sit and think about what I did wrong in this marriage and my biggest area that I’m learning is not having boundaries and loving too much. I never had consequences for things that he did wrong. I continued to allow him to continually cheat on me. Also, I wanted to communicate, but never had the chance to, so I know that I let things slide. I forgave a long time ago and I don’t hold any grudges. I take it as a lesson learned and that God separated us for a reason I pray and hope that one day he’ll see things but that’s not mine to take on that’s his responsibilities. The hardest part of the whole thing was looking at the marriage from where it was in the beginning to where it ended. It’s still painful to this day, but I’ve learned to accept and know that I will be OK and I learned to love myself throughout the process . All I can do is grow and learn to be a better parent each day thank you so much for the resources as well. It was very helpful. in a sense learning how much i truly ignored. With an open mind this is very powerful instruction and education. This course did a good job of helping understand the other persons perspective. We so often dont think about what it feels like to be “put up with”, we tend to think more about what it feels like to be putting up with the other person. puts our differences aside an pit a very healthy perspective on the coparenting relationship. Everyone’s relationships are different and circumstances are different in every divorce. Although I didn’t agree with everything that was said during the course, there were definitely some interesting points. This course has opened my eyes to some things that I otherwise wouldn’t have thought about or considered. The biggest things that stood out to me would be “acceptance”, “disconnecting from being married”, and “put the children first”. Acceptance that he is who he is, whether I agree with it or not. Disconnect from being married in order to build a new co-parenting relationship. Put the children first because they had nothing to do with the end to our married relationship. I feel this course has given me some tools that I will be able to utilize when it comes to conversing with my ex, even when he is not receptive. It was very enlightening of how you need to look at yourself What an excellent course. I’m looking forward to the next chapter in my relationship with my former spouse. La responsabilidad, el perdón, la aceptación, la integridad, y el reconocimiento son vitales para la relación con la ex pareja. I learned that forgiveness is essential to coparenting, and healthy relationship for the better of the child. How to think about what might the other person feel about what choices are made. Lack of communication is the ending to anything!Credibility equals currency
Communication is the key.
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Great course
Withholding was the start of this path to separation. Taking responsibility is key going forward. The goals going forward have to be together, collectively positive and for the kids best interest
Informative Content
Not blaming just your spouse
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This was very helpful!
realization
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Understanding Perspectives
Cleaning up the mess that we made
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Generosity with your ex and responsibility for your actions
Aspectos claves para tener presentes
Forgiveness is key
Interesting way of thinking of things
Communication Is Key

