Really enjoyed listening. Setting reasonable and achievable goals for sharing custody! Good information about bigger picture type of interactions with your ex spouse. Being accountable for my part and moving forward not holding resentments, and to not let the dictate my relationship. I have done a few co-parenting classes now but I think this one will take me further than before. I am in recovery (15 years clean & sober) and I used a lot of these principles when I went through the 12 steps. Accountability, acceptance, courage, willingness, open-mindedness, patience, honesty, ect. I don’t know what my son’s father will do, but I do know who I want to show up as: my best self, in all occurrences. I felt like this course focused on healing the self in order to make a bridge to the other person. Good stuff. I would absolutely recommend. Gives different perspectives on the causes of the divorce and possible outcomes by your own actions and even your thinking that can lead to them .. shows you how to respect one another and work together. Really opened my eyes how to better coparent and communicate! These videos helped me to get over being angry towards my ex & instead focusing on how to move forward in a positive, healthy manner for ourselves and our children. One main issue for me was to give up on my wife being a lover and partner. Extremely excited in her becoming my best friend again. This class highlighted a lot of things I myself can change and do to be a more effective co parent with my ex husband! It’s so easy to point blame when your in the trenches going through it at the time, but I have to let the anger go and focus on what’s right in front of us! I didn’t think it caused harm to keep something from my spouse if it was something that was going to make the upset. Over time more and more is withheld and it creates cracks in the relationship. I felt justified in my reasoning but I understand now what part that played. The course helped to look at some things with a new perspective and great pointers to keep in mind as we are navigating this process. I had an aha moment when he said responsibility is not blame. I am responsible for my actions but I am not to blame. It was good and helpful hope it was for her as well I was really stuck on blaming everyone else and this helped me realize the flaws that I made as well. Co parents must be honest with each other and each have the child’s best interest in mind. It’s really common sense to myself how to co parent and be the best parent i can be for my kids. Listen to your kids. And pay attention to there needs. I found that I played a role that I was previously deflecting and telling myself that none of this was my fault. Why was this happening. Upon taking this course I found evidence via the videos enlightening me with how i played a role and my responsibilities going forward to achieve greatness for my children. I enjoyed the course. It has had me open up to feelings that I have been keeping bottled up for almost a year now. This showed me that in time I will be able to work out all the differences but as of now I still have hard feelings but this helps me know eventually with the proper instructions and rules my son can be happy. My son’s father and I were never married, but much of this related to our coparenting situation moving towards the future. We’ve been able to move past our old intimate relationship and are currently working to build a whole new coparenting relationship. It’s been for us by making that distinction. The data and statistics beginning in video 5 were very eye opening, we only get one chance to raise our son right and neither of us want our separation to deter him from having a happy and fulfilled life. This course helped me realize flaws to work through to not only be a better parent but a better spouse. I feel much more confident about my kids future and that they will have a solid future!Thank you for this! So helpful!
Taking accountability
Incredibly helpful insights from successful co-parents
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GREAT PRODUCT
These segments helped turn a negative situation into a positive situation for me.
Amazing topics and insight.
Working together
Withholding has a big impact
A new way to think
Responsibility is not blame
Good
It takes two.
Honesty in coparenting relationship.
Listen and pay attention to your child. Look into there needs emotionaly.
My role and responsibilities
Co parenting
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Very eye opening statistics in section 5
How to be the best for my children