Course Reviews

I learned that I need to take the time to think about what happened in the relationship and work with my ex on raising our daughter. It doesn’t matter what happened in the past it is how we will move forward and co parent with each other to raise our daughter in a great environment.

For me this this course did a great job highlighting the importance of a mindset that allows a person who is getting divorced to see perspective from his or her former partner and understand where both people played a role in things going wrong. When this can be accomplished, there is far less resentment with each other and much less stress on the kids.

The training is good. I can see it being difficult with people who are in DV situations with partners that thrive on power and control, though.

i knew what type person was marrying and expected it..only to come back to haunt me

our son come first in all decisions

There are a lot of topics regarding the treatment and partnership with the ex-spouse that were really enlightening. Keeping the kids at the forefront of every interaction and decision will make this work in the long run.

I did enjoy this resource, it was helpful and supportive of my views and expanded my knowledge base and understanding of co-parenting and very helpful tools to add to my ‘toolbox’ to life with children after the divorce and communicating with the children’s father and how to help that be a more positive influence for our children

Es un buen curso, Aprendi que la cummunication entre las dos partes es la mejor para el bien de los niños.

Every relationship is not a fairy tale but there is always a better way to handle situations

Great course with great resource

Lots of information and key principles to implement into my own situation with co-parenting.

de primero no creí necesario tomar estas clases pensaba que era perdida de tiempo conforme fui avanzando ahora creo que fue lo mejor , con estas clases entendí que es una necesidad el llevarte bien con tu ex pareja y crear un plan de acuerdos en conjunto por el bienestar de los niños .

I actually learned how from a very young age most people learn that responsibility means someone is getting blamed. This is not the case for the most part, Responsibility is just you admitting that things may have not happened the way you think they did.

This course is a great tool to reference during times of conflict

This course made me really see how responsible I am for the divorce and what I knew the entire time but that I just wanted to be right. That’s all I cared about. I stayed in a marriage for longer than I should have just to be right and make people feel bad for me. Completely enlightening. This gives me tools that I now am going to try regardless if if it’s reciprocated.

Self responsibility, acknowledging reality and putting children first is the priority for all of us here. Finding a way to navigate that path with the tools provided here is only going to help me, so I can help my child.

Was very helpful

Our daughter comes first. I know it was hard with me being gone during the week. I am changing my career to allow me to be home. I am able to forgive her for not paying the bills and our utilities being turned off multiple time. I know we had monthly bills that we should have talked about every month and paid them together so we both took responsibility in managing the bills. I feel we can agree on most issues and know that we need to do better with talking about what we may not agree to so we can do what is best for our daughter. I feel that it is best that our daughter has equal access to both parents and support getting her ready to exchange. I think we communicate well on some issues but need to work on when we don’t. I want us to consider the future as older parents that it is important for our daughter to have relationships with relatives so she has others to help her if needed. I accept things I could have done better and am working on myself to seek support in getting over grief from losing those close to me. I want to help my daughter be successful in her life and to be kind to others. For her to do that I know we need to set an example. I was very close to my grandfather and want to follow how he handled divorce. Our family was together a lot and he never spoke negatively about anything. Family is most important and I want my daughter to be able to spend time with family and share in her live with both parents like we have done with our other daughters. I plan to be listen better and come to be able to where we can both talk about what we feel is best for our daughter. I know there will be times I need to accept things that I may feel differently about if it is in the best interest of our daughter. I feel that we will be able to do what is best is for daughter and share things that need to be followed at both homes. We are able to do this for some things but need to get better as things get harder. I need to communicate better when I feel strongly about something and work together to find a compromise. I know from our other daughters that we need to communicate away from our daughter so she sees that we support each other.

Good reminders and tools

Getting a divorce is one of the most difficult experiences a person can go through. It is a change that affects life as you know it. This course has shown me that even though it is difficult, it can be a positive change if approached with honesty and willingness to work together. Putting aside your differences and doing what is best for your children will provide peace and stability for everyone involved. Just because your family looks different does not mean you cannot remain a team that works together.

Through this process, I’ve learned that co-parenting requires a lot of patience, self-awareness, and emotional control. One of the biggest things I’ve learned about myself is that I can’t let personal feelings or past issues interfere with decisions that affect my child. That has been challenging at times, but also really important.