so far this part or video has changed my life and view. I always expected the other person to know what i was thinking or what i was wanting. or i thought they knew what i wanted or wanted to happened. i never let the other person know how i feel about certain things in the relationship and i assumed that person knew. so i let things bottled up inside and because i never communicated the issues or concerns to my significant other at that time. I understand now that was called withholding which caused me to look and talk to someone else, and my actions caused the split. I never communicated how i felt which cause withholding which caused the disconnection with my loved one which a break up and moving on with someone else (very fast) . Communication is key and expressing everything to always be on the same page with your loved one.