It was very helpful in realizing that I had a part in the divorce, not just to blame him. It really helped open my eyes to most of the situations that occurred could have been prevented with proper communication. Before taking this course I didn’t think I had any responsibility in us getting divorced, but we all do and this course helps you to find that. I will be more respectful towards my coparent and responsive to what’s best for my kids I feel the course helped me to make a good plan about moving forward as coparents. I also had some problems aligning with a few things that were said in regards to my situation. As I have suffered domestic violence and was told keeping things to myself is bad because it internalized and makes me isolated so the not “bad mouthing” spouse thing was confusing. I dont feel I’m bad mouthing when I state facts and ask for help but feel like the things I say are negative toward my spouse so some clarification on that would be good. Importante punto en la vida En la relación todos somos importantes Paciencia y. El perdón. I learned that I have to take responsibility, forgive her and myself, accept what happened, and acknowledged it. If we both can take Responsibility forgiveness acceptance integrity acknowledgment that we can make it the easiest on the two of us an kid! it’s good to go over the kids stuff and keep that at the top of your mind when going through a divorce there the ones that we need to protect the most It was worth the time spent. Lots of good information. This course helps you learn how to communicate and accept things in order to help you move forward with your parenting Was able to take this course as my scheduled allowed so that I can provide a better experience for my children in this life event as well as work with my former spouse in a better capacity Very insightful, would recommend. It helped me see my own actions that helped cause my divorce It was helpful to take a step back and look at situation for different view points and learn some coping skills to help move into next phase of this process. This was very helpful to create a shift in my thinking and I was able to use a new way of communicating even when I was accused and spoken to in ways that are not effective. Usually I would not respond. This change created peace which I was grateful to see. If I had learned and practiced these lessons during my marriage, I believe it could have prevented the divorce from happening (barring my ex-wife learning and practicing the lessons as well). I particularly wanted to highlight these lessons: (1) a partner’s pride/ego can destroy a relationship and what is best for the marriage, children, and/or post-divorce and (2) refocusing on common ground for the kids can be the foundation towards an agreement. These really spoke to me personally as a big part of my divorce was all the arguments/disagreements. They are common sense lessons, but all the built-up negativity, not feeling loved, and resulting frustration influenced my perception of things and likely hers too. Now I hope to put these lessons into practice as I form a new connection primarily focused on our children. I have been trying to co parent with the other parent since we have had our children. One thing I have learned was that no matter what happens in me and the mothers relationship, I am responsible for my own actions and I need to stop acting out over being hurt and betrayed and be so angry about not being able to see my babies. I need to stay calm and collective and make sure I have my head on straight. Cómo crear acuerdos eficaces de forma pacífica. Darme cuenta cuando mi relación dio un giro ala izquierda y algo importante tener mi mente tranquila para poder guiar amis hijos con amor. I learned how to create effective agreements peacefully, have a calm mind to be able to guide my children with love. I learned that even though you may be upset with you partner for whoever is the reason for the separation, it’s no longer about you. You have to forgive your partner and begin to cope with each other for the sake of your children future.No Title
Take Responsibility
A better parent
Helpful for moving forward
La paciencia
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Ser paciente
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Responsibility
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communication
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Helps to look at situation from all angles.
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Too Late to be Learning This
I'm responsible for my own actions
Aprendizaje y paz mental
what I learned from this course

