I vow to accept that this is the man I married and I am the woman he married. I will put the kids first, not talk bad about him, accept what is and try to move forward. It will be difficult because he doesn’t talk or take responsibility without being asked. That needs to be one of our agreements. That he answers, even if he doesn’t think I’ll like the answer and I need to accept the answer. to accept my responsibilities, and forgive my ex for what she done, and hope she does the same for me. Realize its up to both of us to make sure are child comes first no mater what. and to work together to provide a better life for are daughter This was a great way to realize the process and to learn that being mentally healthy is important for me and the kids Tons of great ideas and new ways to look at how to coparent even if you hate the other person I am overall pleased with this course because I believe it is important work and I am grateful that it was required for us in the divorce process. I agree with the attitude of uncovering and recognizing our part and our responsibility in the demise of our marriage. This was a very informative and eye opening course that has helped me a lot! Can be tough to hear, as we may be pretty entrenched in our own perspective. It took a few videos before I was able to begin to see I am not faultless, nor was I powerless. I definitely learned a lot from the course and to keep my kids best interests first. In this course I learned that I really can put things aside and forgive. I couldn’t see that before. It will help us both co parent better for our kids. We can overcome anything in order to give our kids a good life. I got to see that it wasn’t all one sided and I can forgive myself too. I know I can make better decisions in the future. I feel a sence of integrity and feeling good on how I’ve handled my self in most case and feel like I know what I’m doing is right and only for the best for my son. Video 5 was excellent. It gave great detail into resources and was very effective in guiding me through this process. I appreciated the “real-talk” that was used to help illustrate examples. The instructors were very relatable and spoke from experience. This course has really helped me in bettering my communication with my ex. It has also given me the tools to better my communication with my husband now. I definitely will be using these tools in my everyday life now with both my husband and ex. Thank you I am well into the divorce process. This gave me a better perspective on viewing my marriage and a guide for me toward a new mind set to create a future for myself. Creating a positive future for myself will be a good example to my children about overcoming a difficult time in ones life. When I have asked about including their Dad, they have stated it’s weird vibes when all of us are together. I didn’t realize but the kids do pick up on the non-verbal, as my ex and I have tried to be very careful about not “bashing” each other. The kids picked up on our general awkwardness/emotional stuff between us. Thank you for mentioning that the kids can “feel” things. This course was great! I would recommend it for recently divorced couples with children. Even if you think you are able to co-parent, it can be hard with some people. This helped me to take a step back and not blame my ex-husband and just try and focus on the kids. This definitely helped put things into perspective on what needs to be done for the betterment of my child. This course was helpful in seeing my own responsibility for issues within my former marriage that began early on in our dating process. In owning up to that, I feel that I will be able to see my former marriage more for what it was than what I imagined it to be and I believe that I will bring more of myself to future partnerships/relationships because of this. Very informative and helpful information on regarding divorce and kids. One thing this course has made me realize is that everyone may see things in a different perspective. Just because they see it differently doesn’t mean that it is wrong. I can see that there are new ways to do things now with my kids dad. My ex-husband and I were ordered to complete a co-parenting class as part of our divorce. We had a very agreeable divorce and I saw a lot of things in the course that we have tried to do, and a lot of things we need to do better. I appreciate some of the ideas and suggestions made by the formerly married couple – I felt like “we can do that” We have a long road ahead, but starting if off on the right foot is so very important. I hope the course can help others identify their areas of need as well.Moving Forward
what i will use from this
Healing is crucial
Very informative
For garden variety marriages
Good Course
A good start
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I learned to forgive and co parent for my children
Love
Excellent List of Resources.
Excellent Course
This Course Really Helped Me
The course was eye opening
Seeing things differently
Clarifying
Helpful
communication
Both parties are responsible in some way
Good reminders